For The Love of Music

Throughout my life, the impact that music has had on me is very profound. Regardless of whether or not it has been as large a factor in yours or not, odds are that at some point or another, you have heard a song that  really moved you, got your feet tapping, reminded you of past times, or just cheered you up.

So you're on your computer one evening when you come across a band. Or you're talking to a friend, and they mention an artist you really like. Either way, you listen to some of their music, and you decide that you really like them. Next thing you know you're downloading a bunch of their music, or going to the library to take out their albums. And it's such a great feeling to discover new music that you really like.

And so being the great person that you are, you tell people about this great new music. There's nothing worse than a person who discovers something great, but refuses to share it. That's why when somebody asks you if you know of any good stuff, you do not hesitate to tell them. 

But then something happens. You go to tell a person about this new find of yours, and the joy that it has brought you. When you do though, you get a rather aggravating response. You are answered with, "What? You've only started listening to them now? Big deal! I've been listening to them for years now, ever since they first came out. 

Why do people say things like this? The period of time you've spent listening does not equal the severity of which you enjoy it. It doesn't make you a better fan. It just means that you've had the privilege of hearing of them sooner than others. And frankly, if you've been listening to them so much longer, and therefore enjoy them more, than why have you not had the decency of mentioning them prior to this date? If the only time you can mention an artist is when you are trying to one-up somebody, then how much of a fan can you really be?

So please, if some one comes to you and confides in you music that they've come to like, and you've heard of it already, then celebrate your mutual liking of a beautiful thing together. Do not try to belittle them or try to make yourself seem better, because you are not. Music is not a competition. It's a universal way of expression and has no winner or loser. 

Thank you kindly!